Structured, Christ-centered support for couples navigating infidelity, addiction, and betrayal trauma.
If you are here, something significant has happened.
An affair. Pornography use. Repeated deception. Secrets coming to light.
The ground feels unstable. Emotions are intense. Conversations escalate quickly.
And both of you may feel lost — in different ways.
We work with couples who want to face the truth together and move toward restoration with clarity, structure, and hope.
For the betrayed spouse, you may feel:
Shocked, angry, or numb
Hyper-aware and constantly scanning for more information
Unsure what is true anymore
Afraid that asking questions will make things worse
For the betraying spouse, you may feel:
Overwhelming shame
Defensive or minimized
Afraid of losing your marriage
Unsure how to repair what feels broken
Crisis affects both of you — differently.
This is not something that resolves with a date night, better communication tips, or surface-level counseling. Betrayal requires a structured path forward.
Betrayal trauma is real. When trust is broken, the nervous system reacts as if something unsafe has happened — because it has.
Many couples unintentionally cause further harm by:
Attempting “DIY disclosure”
Releasing information in fragments (“trickle truth”)
Entering traditional couples therapy too early
Minimizing the impact of secrecy
Without structure, clarity, and preparation, the cycle of harm continues.
Restoration requires honesty, safety, and a guided process.
Meet your guides
We are professional Christian life coaches trained to guide couples through complex relational recovery.
Our crisis and disclosure work includes:
Trained in the Kintsugi therapeutic full disclosure model developed by Dan Drake and Janice Caudill
Alignment with standards endorsed by APSATS (Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists)
Structured preparation for both spouses before any disclosure occurs
Trauma-aware support for the betrayed spouse
Accountability-centered preparation for the betraying spouse
Faith-integrated coaching without spiritual bypassing
Disclosure is not a single event. It is a carefully prepared process designed to protect both spouses and create a foundation for rebuilding trust.
How we work
Our work together typically unfolds over 3–4 months and includes:
We begin by creating emotional and relational stability so neither spouse is retraumatized by rushed conversations.
Each spouse works through guided preparation — addressing patterns, responsibility, emotional processing, and impact.
The betrayed spouse is supported in articulating the full impact of the betrayal in a structured way.
A structured disclosure session occurs in a guided environment, ensuring clarity, completeness, and containment.
We help establish next steps, boundaries, and an ongoing recovery plan.
From there, we shift toward restoration — communication, safety-building behaviors, and long-term relational growth.
Disclosure is one day within a much larger healing journey.
Crisis does not automatically mean the end of your marriage.
We have walked this road ourselves. We have guided other couples through it. And we have seen restoration happen when both spouses are willing to engage the process.
If you are ready for structured, guided support, we would be honored to walk with you.
All inquiries are confidential. You do not have to navigate this alone.
We work with couples who:
Have experienced infidelity or sexual addiction
Are navigating repeated dishonesty or partial truths
Want clarity and full honesty
Desire to attempt reconciliation
Are willing to do the work required for restoration
Want a Christ-centered but clinically structured process
We do not promise quick fixes.
We offer structure, guidance, and hope for couples committed to walking through recovery together.
We believe:
Truth is necessary for healing.
Safety must be rebuilt before intimacy returns.
Responsibility is essential for restoration.
Christ is the ultimate source of transformation.
But faith does not replace structure. It supports it.
We help couples move from chaos and confusion toward clarity and confidence — step by step.
No. A Full Therapeutic Disclosure is not required to begin working with us — but it is often recommended.
Many couples are unfamiliar with what structured disclosure actually is or why it matters. During your consultation, we’ll answer your questions and help you determine the wisest next step based on your situation.
Our goal is not to pressure you. It’s to help you move forward with clarity and informed decisions.
We can begin by coaching one spouse if the other is not yet willing or ready.
Healing often begins with one person taking responsibility for their own growth. We meet clients where they are and help them make thoughtful decisions about next steps. That said, lasting relational restoration does require participation from both spouses over time.
Many couples believe they have covered everything — only to discover later that important details were minimized, forgotten, or withheld.
We are trained in the Kintsugi Full Disclosure model developed by Dan Drake & Janice Caudill, which removes the pressure of “asking the right questions” and instead follows a structured process designed to ensure clarity and completeness.
Full disclosure provides something essential: informed consent. It allows the betrayed spouse to make decisions about the future of the relationship based on truth, not fragments.
It also creates a turning point for the betraying spouse — moving from concealment to full responsibility.
This fear is very common.
In the short term, disclosure can feel more intense than avoidance. But brushing things under the rug often prolongs instability and retraumatization.
We have guided over 30 couples through this process and have personally walked through it in our own marriage. Our role is to provide structure, containment, and preparation so the process is handled with care and intention.
Preparation for a thorough Full Therapeutic Disclosure can take anywhere from 8 weeks to 6 months.
The timeline depends largely on:
The scope of the disclosure
The work the betraying spouse has already done
The level of engagement between sessions
Our ideal timeline is approximately 12 weeks from start to disclosure day, followed by structured post-disclosure work. We will discuss a realistic timeline once we understand your specific circumstances.
For disclosure preparation, we require weekly sessions for both spouses.
We have found that frequency builds momentum and reduces prolonged instability. Weekly sessions continue immediately after disclosure, with structured checkpoints to evaluate when (or if) adjustments should be made.
All coaching sessions are currently held virtually.
We do offer the option of holding your Full Therapeutic Disclosure in person if you are willing to travel to Riverside County, California and provide an appropriate private rental space for the intensive session.
Disclosure is not the finish line — it is the beginning of a three-step process:
Full Therapeutic Disclosure
Impact Letter
Letter of Restitution
Once those steps are complete, we evaluate together whether it is time to transition into Marriage Alignment Coaching or focus on additional individual healing.
Recovery is a process, not a single event.
If you are ready for structured, guided support, we would be honored to walk with you.